In Chapter 2, the principle of [[Reciprocity]] is explained.

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!Examples of the rule in action
!!Free Coke
A subject who participated in the study found himself rating, along with another subject, the quality of some paintings as part of an experiment on “art appreciation.” The other rater-we can call him Joe-was only posing as a fellow subject and was actually Dr. Regan’s assistant. For our purposes, the experiment took place under two different conditions.
# In some cases, Joe did a small, unsolicited favor for the true subject. During a short rest period, he left the room for a couple of minutes and returned with two bottles of Coca-Cola, one for the subject and one for himself, saying, “I asked him [the experimenter] if I could get myself a Coke, and he said it was okay, so I bought one for you, too.”
# In other cases, Joe did not provide the subject with a favor; he simply returned from the two-minute break empty-handed.

!!! The rule for reciprocity overpowers the influence of "liking"
Afterwards, Joe asked the class if they would like to buy lotery tickets from him. Under the feeling that "they owed him", Joe solde twice as much lotery tickets in case 1 than in case 2. The interesting thing about this experiment was that the relation between liking and 'buying the tickets' was completely wiped out in the condition under which subjects had been given a Coke by Joe. For those who owed him a favor, it made no difference whether they liked him. '

!!! The Rule Enforces Uninvited Debts
The power of the reciprocity rule is such that by first doing us a favor,
strange, disliked, or unwelcome others can enhance the chance that we will comply with one of their requests. However, there is another aspect of the rule, besides its power, that allows this phenomenon to occur.

Another person can trigger a feeling of indebtedness by doing us an
uninvited favor. Recall that the rule only states that we should provide to others the kind of actions they have provided us; it does not require us to have asked for what we have received in order to feel obligated to repay. For instance
* The Disabled American Veterans organization reports that its simple mail appeal for donations produces a response rate of about 18 percent. But when the mailing also includes an unsolicited gift (gummed, individualized address labels), the success rate nearly doubles to 35 percent.
* Other example in the book relates to the Hare Krishnas giving away a free bagavath gita before asking for a fee.
!!! The Rule Can Trigger Unfair Exchanges
There is yet one other feature of the reciprocity rule that allows it to be exploited for profit. The rule was developed to promote equal exchanges between partners, yet it ''can be used to bring about decidedly unequal results''. The rule demands that one sort of action be reciprocated with a similar sort of action.Within the similar-action boundaries, considerable flexibility is allowed. A small initial favor can produce a sense of obligation to agree to a substantially larger return favor. Even something as small as the price of a drink can produce a feeling of debt. A student expressed it quite plainly in a paper she wrote: “Alter learning the hard way, I no longer let a guy I meet in a club buy my drinks because I don’t want either of us to feel that I am obligated sexually.” 

!!! Reciprocal concessions
There is a second way to employ the reciprocity rule to get someone to comply with a request. The author of the book gives an example of a boy scout thatintroduced himself and said that he was selling tickets to the annual Boy Scouts circus. He asked to buy any at five dollars a piece. The autgor declined. “Well," the boy said, “if you don’t want io buy any tickets, how about buying
some of our big chocolate bars? They’re only a dollar each.” The author bougth these and realized that something noteworthy had happened.

The general rule says that a person who acts in a certain way toward us is entitled to a similar return action. Another consequence of the rule, however, is ''an obligation to make a concession to someone who has made a concession to us''. By seeing the second offer as a concession the Boy Scout made, the author felt obliged to honor the purchase of the chocolat to "get even".
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Sun, 12 Jun 2011 14:54:18 GMT
Influence, the psychology of persuasion